hey all..hows everyone doin..hope everyone re fine out ther..well been sometime since i blogged..cause had a few good things happenin and at the same bad thing also..hmm..how ironic life is huh?...u gottta go thru one side..and str be flushed to another side..i guess tats the world's way of sayin its not always a bed of roses ;)...okie well..good things happenin..one of my cousins jus got married traditionally on the 25th feb..and another one will be 25th feb marked our first yr anniversary(when we legally got married)..though yet to be officially married..so well 2 good things happen on sun..apart frm a early mornin weddin..oh boy how much i hate mornin weddings..though i do know tat its a good thing to get married in the morning more than nites..accordin to us we feel tat is the proper auspicious time to get married..in india its widely practised tat way..in fact weddins cld even start at abt 5 am!..meanin the procession and finally the weddin and all..oh boy it cld be such a drag..and the bride wil hav to stay awake the whole nite...:) i wonder whether ther wil be a first nite after tat..or will it be jus first sleepin beside each other;)..and its only the followin nite the action starts..hehe..but honestly i do approve of mornin weddins..but in s'pore its not really possible..sg is suppose to be really hectic..fast rapidly goin country so its hard to hold it in mornin as most of them wil hav struggled on those weekends..wher thats the only day they get to wake up late!...so well tats the thing..tats y nowadays indians do it at nite..mostly rather..but mornin is fresh and nice though..well it was a beautiful weddin..and after wishin and eatin(the food was good especially the dessert..and yea the sweetmeat they gave as a door gift was really cool and nice, it was a apple shaped one..i nearly thought it was apple! :))..so soon after tat i left wit my husband , father-in-law and mother-in-law..the weddin was at sri mariamman temple near chinatown..so once we got out ther were these shops..and my father-in-law and mother-in-law got very excited and were lookin at various thing such as clothes antique..and my mother-in-law was so sweet to offer to get me a wrap around skirt..but i refused..cause boy honestly i was so sleepy..i rem how much my mum nagged at me and was screamin for me to get ready..and did i forget to mention before tat???...how she was screamin at me to get up at 7+ am??!!.. so i was practically in a foul mood...so rite after tat..we actually wanted to go to chinatown...but i refused sorta..cause i was really not in the mood and sleepy a bit too cause i had slept late the nite before too..and not to mention the sun was scorchin hot!..so we went back to our van..and decided to finally go to the aquarium shop..at serangoon north.first we passed by tis beautiful birds..diff exotic ones..but oh boy i wil neva get a bird..cause of their beak! :) wat if they jus poke u..open their beak and bite!! :)..dun wanna take the chance ..but my father-in-law adores birds..he has already a mynah called bashah..and a parrot called meenatchi..so well they hav been havin tis pets for really long..and they eat almost everythin! :) all the indian food u name it! ..but it seems all the hard things like cracker or appalam..they kinda soak it in the water before munchin on them..so y we went to aquarium shop?..well my father-in-law has started havin fishes now..they already hav a big fish tank at home..its very nice i shld say..so we went ther and got 4 beautiful fishes..2 yellow..and one is blue kinda exotic(which i chose)..and one really looks like the army uniform colour(also i chose) :) cause i found it cool!...and the worst part was the smaller one is 5 bucks per fish whereas the same breed but bigger ones is 48 bucks!..well we settled for the smaller ones..and before we were goin back...we saw tis cute dog..some guy was carryin it..oh boy it was so cute!..like a baby! small and cute!...and the way it looked and gave expression was exactly like a baby!!!..u noe how a doll tilts its head and looks?..tats how it did..and it was quiet..and not too active..oh boy if i had to get a dog it shld be tat one!..well soon after tat got back home..before i mention the bad thing tat happen i jus wanna mention really happy first...well im sure a lot of ppl i know ..knows tat i hav a phoebia for animals..so well rite now i am havin tis cute pearl winter white hamster..i gotta say tat im really gettin so used to it..thankfully!!..i was so scared in the initial days and was worried..in fact i wanted to give it back to my husband..but well..seein it everyday..lookin after it..and also gradually touchin it..( and ihav to say my hamster breed is kinda tolerant and doesnt bite, at the most nibbles..)..she is white looks like stuart little..but she is damn active..perhaps due to her small body..and she wil always be workin at her wheel..well i normally let her smell me first or hear me before i put my hand to stroke her ..but honestly on when she is eatin or movin ard slowly i cld do tat..other than tat she wil be goin in a flash..so well tats one good thing tat happened to ya...cause i strongly believe when u hav a pet ..u shld hav a certain attachment to it..and also a kinda mutual thing..if tat doesnt exist..its gonna go really bad..so well i love her to bits now!..andshes my world!..shes the one who makes me smile everyday now :)...okie comin back to the bad thing..rite after cousin's weddin..the next day, 26th feb..wher i thot i cld rest..shockin news..my mum opened my room door..and woke me up in a jolt tellin me tat my granny had passed away...i was surprised shocked and also sleepy..i honestly cld not absorb anythin..after tat only it got into me..since i had got up a bit late..and my dad who is the sole son whos supportin her and everythin..though she has another son..i dun wish to talk abt tat..well my dad had to immediately go and make arrangement cause he's the one whos gonnapay for all costs..well after i bathed and came..i saw my dad cry after a long time..tellin me his mum has died..i do know he loves his mum a lot..well as compared to then..i dun really talk to my dad so much nowadays..but well when iheard him say tat..i jus asked him when he got to know..so they left first..my dad mum and bro..later at ard 9+pm..my dad came and picked me up..stayed ther til the nite without sleepin and ard mornin i left cause i really cld not take it..but i left seein her quiet solemn face..and touched her..honestly if u ask me..i miss her..shes one granny i love to talk to,tease and laugh with..though i aint much close to her or hav seen her much..its only when i was 15 when she came to stay over i got really close wit her..before tat when i used to go to my cousin's house(my dad's brother's kids)..she used to stay ther most of her life i hav to say..its only after tat when she came over to stay here for some time i loved spendin time wit her..but she neva stayed long ..after a mth she left..and soon after tat i did pay a few visits..but after tat once i went to poly i got engulfed in the madness and neva got to see her..i really regret not goin and seein so much..tats one regret i hav ...but i do love her in my heart...apart frm some phone convs i had wit her when she calls for my dad..i neva knew she wil go so soon..and the last i saw her was only on my engagement..tat was last yr.she didnt even makeit for the rom..cause of the stair thing ..as the venue had stairs and she cant really climb up..my granny is 95..but im proud of her..cause even though she was really old she used to be so active and up and runnin..and neva so much like depressed..and shes rather talkative too..and full of life.. and i m sure ure with the Lord now and with peace..i love u granny..and know one thing u re always in my heart!..i really hope she wil be born as my kid so i cld take care of her..---------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------
well tis re photos of kuttima( my hamster alias stuart little)..so with tat i end tis post..(btw i didnt take any pix yet..but i saw tis frm the net while i was gettin to know more abt her breed)..and its exactly her!..so i thot y not ..)
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